tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-86820629765174750372024-02-19T07:07:41.620-08:00Define: MavisMavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-4197653931412444602012-08-22T20:43:00.000-07:002012-08-22T20:43:45.919-07:00And So it Begins.... Round 2Well, it has begun... I am on the juice again. Nope, not steroids.... but back on good ol' IVF shots. I gave myself my first one tonight. Ahhhh, how easily we forget these sorts of things. Like how a 15 inch needle feels as it penetrates your backside because you can't ever do it just right. Something to do with the fact that I work in commercial real estate vs. a medical profession makes me horrible at stabbing the upper quadrant of my rump. They start you slow. I think it's to trick you but I am sure there is some more precise medical terminology for this. So right now I only give myself one cc of delestrogen every three days. But in about two weeks I will add one billion (approximate) cc's of this other stuff everyday. That is the miserable part, if I recall.<br />
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There is always one thing to remember when giving yourself shots... not where to put the needle, or whether you numbed the spot enough or how much it is going to hurt tomorrow.... No, the important thing to remember is that you are working to make a baby for someone. Oh, and not to hit that damned nerve that runs down your leg. Anyway, the first one is done. Hopefully, in about 15 weeks, there will be no more.<br />
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I do have a scheduled date for an embryo transfer, as long as my body does what it is supposed to do. I already know that I am much more cautious of celebrating each step because of the outcome of the last transfer. If I were a gamblin' man, I would say that I think this time is going to go great, but I just have to be more prepared if it does not. Because last time I don't really think that I was prepared enough emotionally for the what-ifs that became reality. But I am sure it will all be great, right?<br />
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As I was giving myself my shot tonight, my husband said something that made me feel great: "Babe, I am proud of you for all that you are doing. It takes a strong person to do all of this for another person." It made me realize that he understands just how much this means. Not just for me, but for the Intended Father as well. It is silly for me to think HE is proud of ME. This man that is my hero and works so hard for me and our family said he is proud of me. He is my soul mate. He leaves Sunday for 25 days of intense training. Then he will be home for two weeks and then he will leave for much longer to Afghanistan. Things will be tough without him, but I will have so much free time to write random blogs about being pregnant with another man's baby! ;-) I hope to post about a secured embryo transfer date in the near future, so stay tuned for a play by play of round two, coming to a blog near you.<br />
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P.S. I am super excited about a new show starting that I think everyone should check it out. I don't know all the details, but it seems to be about a couple of dads that get a surrogate to have their baby. I already LOVE it! The <a href="http://www.nbc.com/the-new-normal/" target="_blank">New Normal</a> premiers on NBC September 11, 2012.Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-52627874627074312642012-07-09T12:25:00.002-07:002012-07-09T12:26:12.510-07:00Moving ForwardI have come on here a few times and re-read previous posts. It's tough to read through and recall how far we were and then remember that day in May. It makes me pretty emotional every time. <br />
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I have had a lot of support from friends and family. Even people that I am not close with have supported me. There is/ was no way for me to possibly anticipate how I was going to feel in this situation. So for those of you that did reach out and offer guidance, thank you so much.<br />
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Now, for the moving forward part. We have talked about this and it is definitely happening. At first I was scared about this, and I am sure I will be until there is a sweet little baby in his arms, BUT I am thrilled at the idea of us finishing what we started. I had set out to complete a family and I am excited to still have that chance. Unfortunately, it has had some heartbreak throughout, but that is all part of life.<br />
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We will need to start from step one. I have contacted the IVF doc to schedule the first ultrasound to make sure all has healed properly. And then I guess we will go from there. So we are back on... Hope everyone is still doing great!</div>Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-53365417067833031352012-05-15T15:55:00.002-07:002012-05-15T15:55:39.274-07:00ShatteredNine days ago my pregnancy took a very unexpected turn. I had an ultrasound and quite a few complications were found. It came as an overwhelming surprise to me and especially to the Intended Father. So, last Thursday, May 10th, I was admitted to the hospital and come Friday I was no longer pregnant. Clearly there are a lot more details here, but they are not mine to share. Nor do I think that I am strong enough at this point to share them.<br />
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But I can talk a little bit about how I feel. Shattered. On Thursday when I was admitted I thought, I can handle this. Obviously I was sad, but it wasn't my baby. Well, only a heartless person can believe that. To know that a life was lost is so devastating that there is no possible way to comprehend how I was going to handle it. I feel so sad for the father. I feel so sad for the baby. When I think about them and the last week and a half- I mourn. I cry. I sob. I hurt so much. I wanted to make that family complete so bad. We had worked for about a year at making this wonderful thing happened and for it to end so abruptly was very difficult to handle.<br />
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Physically, I feel great. Having a baby at 5 months is quite different than at 9 months. But the emotional healing will take some time. I know in my heart this sadness will never quite go away. But I will be able to talk about it and face it head on in the future. <br />
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As far as the surrogacy goes, that is just a question mark right now. At this point we all need time to heal before any decisions can be made. But if he decides not to go forward or if I decide that, then it's a decision that I know will be well received by both parties. I have grown very close to the Intended Father and I know how much he wants a baby. I just don't know if that is in the cards right now.<br />
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Please take a moment and say a prayer for that sweet baby and his father in this difficult time.<br />
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<br />Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-90586051817907794982012-04-23T09:07:00.000-07:002012-04-23T09:07:34.210-07:00ALMOST Halfway there... 18 WeeksWell, today I am 18 weeks and 1 day. It seems so crazy to say. Time really is going by so fast. It's weird because I think that when you are pregnant with your own child things seem to go very slow.... But with this pregnancy I feel like as soon as I have one appointment, just a few days later there is another.<br />
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I went to the doctor last week and she said that baby looks well and confirmed that HE is definitely a HE. Which is good info to have. Today I will schedule my appointment for the big second trimester scan. This should hopefully catch anything that may be abnormal. Ideally, there will be nothing though.<br />
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I would say about 2 weeks ago I felt slight flutters, but now they are more defined movements. I can't tell what his sleep schedule is quite yet, but I am sure it will become more apparent shortly.<br />
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So I have some pictures of my progressive growth. I have gained about 5 pounds at this point. But that will surely be changing. This week he is (according to <a href="http://babycenter.com/">babycenter.com</a>) 5.5 inches from crown to rump and weighs about 7 ounces. They describe this as the size of a bell pepper. HOWEVER, another brilliant blogger/ surrogate- <a href="http://thedeputyforalimitedtime.blogspot.com/search/label/fetus%20size">The Deputy</a>- has much better and more relatable description. I mean how often are fruits and veggies one standard size? Hmmm, never. BUT there are things that are fairly standard in size without much variance. So, as <a href="http://thedeputyforalimitedtime.blogspot.com/search/label/fetus%20size">The Deputy</a> says: He is the size of liquid hand soap.<br />
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*** Be sure to check out her hilarious blog <a href="http://thedeputyforalimitedtime.blogspot.com/">here</a>. It gives an entirely different view on surrogacy that will surely make you laugh.***<br />
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</div><div align="left" class="separator" style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none; clear: both; text-align: center;">P.S. Yes, I realize the pink shirt should probably be retired until after the pregnancy as it is a bit snug to be wearing....</div>Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-19444645217738534942012-03-27T15:16:00.000-07:002012-03-27T15:16:59.242-07:0014 Weeks....Still chugging along. I don't have much to report so I thought I would just fill in with some miscellaneous details.<br />
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<ul><li>We found out recently that my darling husband is deploying. This is very sad. Say a prayer for him. </li>
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</div><div style="text-align: center;"> Since my last post I have had 2 ultrasounds. And I have 2 more scheduled next week. Unfortunately it's not due to just wanting to see the babies a lot. After the discovery of the twins, I went back for a follow up. The doctor then discovered that both were a week behind in growth. This isn't too concerning in the last trimester, but he seemed more concerned since it was early on. The positive thing is that both had strong heartbeats, which is the most important thing, I think.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;">So I went back in for another ultrasound and received sad news. One of the twins hadn't made it. This was tough for me to take. Though ultimately, we are trying for ONE successful pregnancy, it is still a loss to know that a baby didn't make it. But also, I know that the most important thing is that any baby(ies) are healthy and strong, and that maybe he just wasn't. I still am questioning if it was something I could have prevented but I have been reassured otherwise.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;">Unfortunately, that was not the only downer from that appointment. The one snuggle bug in there (he is a boy, by the way) is still about 6-7 days behind, but he has a super strong heartbeat of 170 BPM. SOOOOO, I will be trekking up to L.A. (ew) again next week. They are doing a regular ultrasound to see if maybe he hit a growth spurt. If NOT then I have an appointment a couple hours later at a fetal medicine specialist. There they will complete a more clear ultrasound I guess and see if they see any triggers for chromosonal defects or something. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;">So I just ask that y'all say a little prayer that maybe he is just a late bloomer. I have read a lot of forums and gotten feedback from other surrogates and many have had similar issues (apparently common with IVF) and have gone on to have 1 or 2 healthy babies, which is all I am hoping for. Over the last 2 weeks I have been pretty hungry, so I will take that as a sign that he is growing ferociously in there! Oh- and I have gained 2 pounds, so that means he had to do something, or is it all going on my hips... hmmmm....</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;">Finally, now that it is definitely just one little bean, we have an official due date:</div><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="background-color: white; color: red; font-size: x-large;">SEPTEMBER 25th!!!!</span></strong></div><div style="text-align: center;">( If you don't know me too well, this is my birthday- good sign? I do believe so!!!)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: center;">p.s. If everything is fine and dandy, I get to stop shots in 9 days..... another reason for those prayers!</div>Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-50710695498523699582012-02-13T12:24:00.000-08:002012-02-13T12:24:55.611-08:001+1 Equals Twice the Fun... Right?<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">I got news about a week and a half ago, that was pretty big, but a little tough for me to adjust to. TWINS. 2. Dos. A party in my womb. It was a lot to digest and I am still getting used to the idea. When I had the ultrasound, within seconds the doctor says: "oh look, there's two." Like it's a normal thing. Just FYI, it is NOT normal to me. Even though it's only one more, there is a HUGE difference between one and two. At the ultrasound, it was a bit early to see heartbeats though, so it isn't officially confirmed. But there were 2 peas in 2 pods (so not identical twins) measuring the right sizes. We will see the heartbeats later this week. But here is the first photo of the twins.... Yikes!</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">At my ultrasound there was another great shock... My wonderful baby daddy (or Intended Father as some say) came to the appointment and surprised me. All the way from Paris. So he got to see his BABIES for the first time and we were able to hang out all weekend and enjoy beautiful San Diego. It was a great time. </div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">AAAAAAAAHHHHHHH TWINS!!!</div>Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-82016897633615328392012-01-26T13:47:00.000-08:002012-01-26T13:53:09.741-08:00Step By Step, Day By Day<div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">Well, I had my Beta blood test and my number was a 644. So I am OFFICIALLY preggo according to the docs. For anyone that isn't familiar with beta numbers that, it's pretty high for a single baby. So there may be two or it might be just one REALLY healthy baby... Yikes for two. I have had my second blood test (7 days later) and it was 3434. Showing steady growth BUT maybe not as rapidly as twins. These are all assumptions that I make based on other people's stories. For all I know there are eight in there and I will be banished from society like that Octo-lady.</div><br />
Currently I am dealing with a boat load of side effects. I can't say that it is from being pregnant as I am sure it is from the crap-ton of meds in my system.<br />
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1- ALWAYS exhausted. I could sleep right now in fact. I also enjoy sleeping under my desk on a regular basis. In the morning I feel amazing. At around 10-11 am, I feel like death. That lasts until 8:30 pm and then I absolutely must sleep. <br />
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2- Slightly nauseas. Nothing ginger ale and small meals doesn't cure. This was happening before the transfer, so I will assume it is meds. It's just getting slightly worse, but so far I have held it together... for the most part.<br />
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</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;">3- Body temperature. At night (right after shots) I sweat. Bad. My poor husband. :-( During the day- FREEZING. At work I usually have a cardi, a scarf and a jacket. It's 78 degrees outside and THAT is my outfit.</div><div style="border-bottom: medium none; border-left: medium none; border-right: medium none; border-top: medium none;"><br />
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Then comes the wait. The odds are in our favor I believe. Strong egg donor, healthy embryos and my stellar uterus. But those factors don't always mean success. Science can only go so far. My blood test isn't for a few days to determine if I am or am not preggers. HOWEVER, I obviously couldn't wait that long. So I have obviously taken a test, or two, or 20. I don't have the most recent, but I have one of my first positives below.... <br />
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So I sent a text to the baby daddy and let him know and we were both excited. YAY! <br />
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Fast Forward a couple of hours (lots of driving and work being done during this time)<br />
WAITING WAITING WAITING for the Fertility Clinic to call and give me medication (<u>A LOT MORE</u>) instructions and a date. In approximately one week little embryos are going to make their way from their dish to my uterus and make it home for a few months. I can't believe it! I mean, things can still go wrong, but this is pretty exciting, so I will enjoy it. <br />
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<div style="text-align: left;">AAAAHHHH!!!!!! So in 2012 I will be carrying a baby for someone - what's on your docket? Oh and apparently I also have been forced to make a resolution to be a bit more tidy (agreed on by my <a href="http://ellebee3.blogspot.com/">BFF </a><<<click there to read her adoption journey>>> and the hubby because they are OCD and I am NOT) <br />
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<span style="color: red; font-size: large;"><strong>HAPPY 2012!!!!!!!!!</strong></span></div>Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-21730588093090776842011-12-23T12:50:00.000-08:002011-12-23T12:52:50.344-08:00Delays Delays DelaysWell, the transfer didn't happen. That doesn't mean it isn't going to happen, but it didn't. Yet.<br />
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I went to the doctor on Dec 6th and he told me that my uterine lining was looking a little thin. It needed to be 7-12 mm (i think) thick, and mine was only at 6.3. So they gave me some extra estrogen and then I came back a few days later for another ultrasound. I didn't really think anything of it and was told it was pretty common, but the extra estrogen should boost it. So when he gave me the news that it was thinner (5mm) not thicker, I was incredibly disappointed. <br />
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The thing is, the Intended Father is an amazing man. And this is not his first attempt at surrogacy. So I wanted so bad to be able to tell him his long wait was finally over and that he would be a father in just nine short months. However, I do have high hopes, and can't wait until we can do the transfer. He said he was anticipating this delay, but hopefully there are no more.<br />
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Anyway, I went off meds, let them all cycle out and started back on them on Dec 21. The mid cycle ultra sound is on January 3rd. As long as there are no issues with that, we should be transferring an embryo or two shortly after. <br />
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On another note, because the transfer didn't happen I had plenty of time to study and take my calculus final... That I FAILED. Thankfully though, I passed the class. No more calculus for me. EVER. <br />
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I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas and a safe and awesome start to 2012!!!<br />
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I was like SCORE! Christmas party here I come. Until I realized that the 15th is the day of my Calculus final. Pretty hard to take a final if you are on bed rest. I stressed about this all morning. And then I found out from the Intended Father that they are definitely aiming for the 15th. UUUUGGGHHHH!<br />
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So, I called the fertility clinic and they were super amazing. They said that as long as I am straining my mind only and not my body, it would be fine if I took my final that evening after the embryo transfer. YAY! I am still waiting for the IF's approval, but that is one less stress. Thank goodness.<br />
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The only drawback is that I have to take a Valium before the procedure. Anyone wanna guess how awesome my grade will be after taking a Calculus final while under the Valium cloud? We will see....Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-70785911947147849652011-11-30T13:15:00.000-08:002011-11-30T13:15:59.139-08:00Sometimes You Feel Like a Druggie....?So, shots have been going for about three weeks... and at this point the stomach ones (Lupron) have become second nature. I can do them in a matter of seconds. The needle is nothing now...<br />
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Is that not the conclusion that YOU came to? Me neither.<br />
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So we went to San Francisco for Turkey Day and traffic was predictably terrible. So we wound up being much later than anticipated. At 7:30 I say to the hubby, I gotta do shots in like 30 minutes... Ok- We will stop somewhere. So we get to Burger King AKA County Hospital and their restrooms are FOUL. I didn't even want to wash my hands for fear of contracting a disease. So that was out.<br />
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I go back to the car and we decide to do it in the car. Rump up, under street lights and in a VERY public place. Yes. I looked like a crack head. Because I then proceeded to whip out my other syringe and shoot up my belly with Lupron. Quite the thrilling adventure that I hope to never repeat.<br />
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Anyway... things are on track, for the most part. Which is swell. A couple more weeks until the transfer as long as all goes well... I can't wait!Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-37020690401816064542011-11-07T15:30:00.000-08:002011-11-07T15:30:43.839-08:00Wow.... 'Nuff SaidShots. Not really a big deal. At this point I have had quite a bit. Between childhood and the military, I have had many a shot.... <br />
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</div>It was like a clown car full of needles and vials and stuff. Never ending box of drugs. I thought it was only 2 or 3 that were coming. So it was very surprising when I pulled SIX prescriptions out of the box. I am not kidding when I say that I almost had an anxiety attack.<br />
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THEN, I read through the instructions for the first set of shots. TWENTY EIGHT STEPS. As in two less than THIRTY. Um, excuse me? It's going to take me an hour to give myself a shot. I don't have this sort of time allotted in my schedule.<br />
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The next day the fertility clinic called to discuss the meds with me. Thank goodness. She explained that the extra ones were for later on down the road and then told me which ones to focus on. That helped. She also said they had a video on their website that goes through giving the shots. Step by step. All 28 of them. I haven't had a chance to view this, but I will by tomorrow.<br />
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Can you believe I start meds tomorrow? I am wondering of the side effects... I mean if you are suppressing and injecting various hormones, something is bound to happen. I will keep you updated on Monday with photos and reports of crazy out of control hormones.Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-39273059801365228142011-10-28T14:23:00.000-07:002011-10-28T14:30:51.726-07:00It's Official!I am now a surrogate! Well, as of October 26th I was. That's when all of the contracts were signed, sealed and delivered. That is crazy... Next Friday, one week from today, I start taking shots. This will be a whole new experience for me and I can't wait. I am sure after a few days, I will be over it, but for now it seems exciting.<br />
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Getting to this point has taken a while, but I know in the end it will be worth it. The day I got the contracts I was super excited. But I knew that this was a HUGE life changing decision. I mean, I am using my body to give someone else a baby! So of course I had to reflect on it a bit. My wise friend, <a href="http://ellebee3.blogspot.com/">ElleBee</a>, said something that made it very easy: "This is an opportunity for you to make a difference in this jacked up world of ours. No question about it that you should do it." That's why I love her.<br />
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I printed two copies. Me and the hubs signed and initialled about ONE BILLION pages and sent them to our lawyer. Now all is set. I am ready for all this adventure has to bring.... I think. <br />
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So next Friday I start <a href="http://www.ivf1.com/ivf-lupron/">Lupron</a> shots. Not sure what this does.... suppresses estrogen maybe??? That link back there says but it's still very confusing to me. I bet in 3 months I will be an expert. Anyway, those go into my stomach. EVERYDAY.<br />
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Feel free to join me on this journey. From shots to morning sickness to hand delivering a baby to the Intended Father, I have a feeling this is going to be a fun and probably bumpy ride!Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-12248809758312771172011-09-28T11:16:00.000-07:002011-10-28T14:32:58.983-07:00Tick Tock<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">When I signed up for surrogacy… I had a general idea of how long it would take.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Approximately 1 year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Well, I officially got medical clearance (saying the hubby and I are both clean and free of infection- like there was any question) last night.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So NOW we all sign contracts.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>THEN shots start…. Let’s take a look at the timeline:</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">May 28<sup>th</sup>- Applied with <a href="http://www.surro.com/">THE AGENCY</a></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">June 2<sup>nd</sup>- Placed on website to be matched</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">July (beginning) – Interviewed with the Intended Father<<< LOVED him</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Next day- officially matched</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">10 days later-ish - Met with psychiatrist and got clearance</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">August----waited waited waited</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">September 6<sup>th</sup>- Drove to L.A. for fertility screening</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Last week- Mailed Marco’s blood and urine. TWICE (Weird)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Yesterday- Got medical clearance</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Today- Start birth control pills (thank goodness!)</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">But from here it is still going to be a bit… contracts, shots, 4-6 weeks, then implantation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>THEN nine months of incubating.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>So, there is at least 11 more months left.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am just curious as to where the 12 month estimate comes from.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> So if this is something that you are interested in- I think that a better, more accurate estimate of time is 15-18 months. Which is fine with me, but everyone should be clear on that.</span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Today, the IF (Intended Father) said “I am glad I have you.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just a great reminder that he is truly grateful and as excited as I am about getting this baby to him.</span></div>Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-19037855150184101692011-09-16T13:48:00.000-07:002011-09-16T13:48:04.741-07:00One step closer...My birthday is right around the corner. T minus 9 days. I am not so thrilled about it. I never am. In fact, I typically cry. Today I was talking to <a href="http://www.ellebee3.blogspot.com/">ElleBee</a> about my sadness about not having done much in my life. No real travel, still going to school and I don't have a CAREER. The same things that I stress about every year. And she said the best thing (not an exact quote). <br />
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It made me feel really good. And definitely better. But I still want to travel.<br />
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On to the surrogacy- We are almost there... So, last night I recieved a call from the fertility clinic.... all my tests came back good. SWEET. The only thing we need now is for the hubby's results to come back. After that, the shots start and 4-6 weeks later implantation happens! That means that in 2 months I should be pregnant... for someone else! <br />
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Now they tell you about the shots. A lot. Everyday. You can't miss a shot... blah blah. I like to think that this will be no problem. I am fairly certain that I am wrong. For like at least THREE months it will be minimum one shot a day. <br />
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One is to thicken something, another is to stop something and then I forgot all the rest. If there are more. There's no telling really. Okay, maybe there is and I just wasn't listening. The fertility peeps were just talking so fast. But they gave me lots of paperwork to sign that also have a TON of instructions. Thank goodness I enjoy reading, because there is plenty of that to do!<br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">I know that a lot of people “frown upon” surrogacy. They think that I am giving up my own baby or selling a baby or it’s not how God intended. To those people I say: Bite me. Marco and I have been so blessed. We have A LOT of babies. All four of those babies have changed my life incredibly. Ali with her sweet demeanor, Kingston with his daring ways, Jaedon with his sensitive smile… and Caleb with his HUGE appetite. Man that boy can eat. God has given to us. A LOT. I want to give back. We don’t have a lot of money to give but I do have a great uterus and I know that it will change someone’s life.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Surrogacy is a huge step and some probably wonder how I came to it. So I will give a brief overview of the beginning… a while ago (not sure if I should say when), my best friend, <a href="http://ellebee3.blogspot.com/">ElleBee</a>, and her husband started trying to get pregnant. A while later it still had not happened. Even longer after that, still no baby. It was so difficult to understand and incredibly heartbreaking. There were lots of tears. She saw specialists- nothing was wrong. He saw specialists- nothing was wrong. They keep trying, nothing. It makes no sense. I joked one day saying that I would carry their baby for them, but they weren’t quite ready to take that route…. But I realized that I was, it would just be for someone else.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">Side note: Check out my dear friend, <a href="http://ellebee3.blogspot.com/">ElleBee</a>, as she and her husband embark on the amazing journey of adoption. Read her blog, maybe even donate a bill or two to the cause, because it turns out that adoption is pretty pricey!</div>Mavishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02860816775656582632noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8682062976517475037.post-82121008701854134792011-08-15T15:06:00.000-07:002011-08-15T15:06:55.786-07:00Why I should be Dr. MavisRecently, I made the BRILLIANT decision to get off birth control. Obviously, the hubby and I have WAY too many kids (4), so it isn't so we can reproduce. It's because I needed to start the surrogacy progress (that's for another day.) Anyway, about a week after getting off birth control I realized why it's so efficient...<br />
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Birth Control = Hormones in check= no desire to get naked - even to take a shower.<br />
No birth control = Want to go at it like bunnies. All day, everyday, anywhere.<br />
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